But one is not being complimented for one's passion or intelligence. In fact, Kehn Thompson, who formerly worked as a spokeswoman for the Republican National Committee, has quite an impressive resume. She could not be reached for comment regarding her description as a trophy wife.
Thompson for whatever reasons, but she's an accomplished woman, and to call her a trophy wife is really sexist," said Paul Costello, former press secretary for Kitty Dukakis. No one would use those terms to a guy who was good looking and stylish. I find it really sexist. Claims of sexism may abound, but at the end of the day, many women would be flattered to be considered a trophy wife, and those who are not may actually aspire to become one, according to Dr.
Debbie Then, a social psychologist who specializes in women and appearance. Because no matter what a woman does in her life, when the chips are down, women are all evaluated based on their appearance.
But there may be such a thing as being too beautiful, she said, and many women feel slighted when their beauty is the only thing people notice.
Even if some women are pleased about the trophy wife label, men are likely even happier. Having an attractive wife, some say, cannot only make the husband feel more powerful, but may even make him appear more attractive to others. Foodies can have a great time meeting at gourmet cooking classes or restaurant openings. Explore your options at work. Go for after-work drinks, attend work parties, and get to know some of the people you work with. Give internet dating a try. There are hundreds of online dating sites out there that cater to people who are looking for very specific partners, and you're bound to find one that can set you up with the kind of person you're seeking.
For instance, there are dating websites and apps for people: [4] X Research source Of various religions and faiths In different income brackets With certain hobbies or interests Who want specific types of relationships In different age ranges With different educational backgrounds. See what the nightlife has to offer. Clubs, bars, and social events are still a top way to meet prospective partners, and you can help increase your odds of finding the right partner by choosing locations where that type of person might go.
For instance, if you're looking for someone who appreciates the finer things in life, choose upscale clubs and events instead of local pubs and house parties. Part 2. Educate yourself. The notion of having a trophy wife involves having a partner that you're proud to introduce to friends and family. To be a trophy wife, therefore, you need to be intelligent, know what's going on in the world, and be able to carry on an intellectual conversation about a wide array of topics.
Reading books and materials of all kinds, including fiction and non-fiction, features, history, political discourses, and classic literature. Looking up college courses that interest you, finding the reading lists, and borrowing those books from the library to read in your spare time. Have your own goals. Being a strong and independent person are always attractive qualities in a prospective partner, which is why you need to have your own dreams and ambitions, and should set and work toward your own goals.
Your goals can involve things like: Traveling Volunteering Making a difference in the world Starting a business or foundation Education and learning Taking up certain hobbies. Work hard for your own success. When it comes to so-called trophy wives, more often than not the women involved in the marriage were successful and wealthy before they married their partners.
Depending on your dreams, success may mean: Getting promoted to a certain position Landing a dream job with your favorite company Getting your own business or foundation off the ground Visiting specific countries or landmarks Obtaining a degree or diploma Having a certain amount of money saved away.
Be charming, confident, and outgoing. Being fun, sociable, and easy to get along with will help you find the perfect partner, and it will make your partner even more eager to show you off to friends and family. Practice being charming, confident, personable, and fun to be around.
For some people, part of the appeal of trophy partners is that they can inspire envy in others, so if you get along with everybody and are charming, successful, and confident, people will be attracted to you.
Part 3. Practice good hygiene. Proper hygiene is a good habit for anybody because it means that you care for yourself and take care of your body. Nonetheless, a good routine can be as simple as: [10] X Research source Flossing and brushing your teeth at least twice daily Showering with soap daily and washing your hair with shampoo at least weekly Keeping your hands clean and your nails nicely manicured Wearing clean clothes Combing or styling your hair.
Pamper yourself. Opt for treatments that involve keeping your hair, skin, and nails groomed and youthful, such as: Facial treatments Hot oil scalp treatments Manicures Pedicures. Take care of your body. Staying in shape, eating well, exercising, [11] X Research source and keeping your body fit will make you healthier, more radiant, and will help keep you younger longer.
To do this: [12] X Research source Exercise at least three days a week Eat a balanced diet with lots of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains Drink water whenever you feel thirsty Get plenty of rest every night Look after yourself when you're sick. Dress for success. Fashion will always be a subjective notion, but by staying on top of current trends and keeping classically fashionable items in your wardrobe, you can dress to kill regardless of whether you're going to work, the gym, or a cocktail party.
Wear outfits that are flattering for your shape and colors that complement your skin. Read magazines and stay on top of what current fashions are. If you want people to notice your body, wear form fitting outfits that still leave plenty to the imagination.
Some suggest that showing 40 percent skin is the perfect amount to attract a mate, [14] X Research source so try dresses and skirts that stop at the knee or a little above, and clothes that show some of your torso and arms but not too much cleavage. Appreciate the finer things in life. When you're wealthy and successful, you have the privilege of being able to spend more money on things you like. This makes it easier to stay on trend with current fashions, which is important for somebody who is supposed to be an icon for all things popular.
Part 4. Help your partner succeed as well. Yes, these women look the part, but there is a lot more to them than just outer appearance. So, how do these women do it? How do they manage to look great while keeping all the other balls in the air? To be fair part of it is resource related. Practice Self Care — the reason that trophy wives look so good is because they are well taken care of. That means self care. Make sure you are not treating yourself as an afterthought.
Drink enough water, exercise, meditate, ditch the sweatpants and wrinkled tees and dress well. Do what it takes to make sure you feel your best. When you feel good you look good too. If you have children who are old enough to make their own beds, let them. Create a chore chart and divvy up child appropriate duties. Make sure you enlist people on your team not necessarily your payroll who can help you out in a pinch. Lean in to Your Career- stop waiting to be rescued, stop waiting for your kids to get older, stop waiting until the universe lines up perfectly.
Decide to lean in today. What do you need to do to advance? Perhaps you need to blow the dust off and update your resume, look for opportunities to create additional streams of income, create a business plan or go back to school for an additional certification or degree.
Date on Your Level or higher - okay, this is going to be tough to hear but so many women compromise what they want for what they think they can have right now. It is okay to have standards. There is nothing wrong with wanting the same things you have to offer in another person. Stop settling and date like a man.
Men typically have a good idea of what they are looking for in a partner. Stop with the savior stuff and date up too. Mother Like a Boss — If you are already a mom which most of my readers are keep on mothering like the boss I know you already are. Trophy wives look like super moms because they take mothering seriously. But if you want more then go for it. You can be your very own trophy wife! Like Liked by 1 person. Like Like. Trophy wife make me think of a woman who is pursued by a wealthy man based on superficial standards.
As the mom of a daughter, I try to instill in her the importance of education so she is able to navigate life choices from a intellectual and social perspective. I am very clear with both kids that celebrities who reach fame and are able to sustain to make the Forbes list are fortunate to have solid team to protect and support their brand.
I think Jackie O married with intention in terms of not settling and married men on her level. As a single mom, I wholeheartedly agree of making ourselves a priority and not settling for less.
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